Most women require direct — or close to direct — stimulation of the clitoris to orgasm. The easiest way to do it is lying next to each other on a bed. The patron saint of TV masturbation, Sam has endless scenes where she gets her clit lit. What better way to learn how to get your partner off than watching them do it in front of you? Having a slick surface can prevent chafing or irritation, plus it just feels good.
What better way to learn how to get your partner off than watching them do it in front of you?
Male, Female Mutual Masturbation Compilation
You might also enjoy a soft tapping motion. According to Sofia Jawed-Wessel , a sex researcher and assistant professor at the University of Nebraska at Omaha, young women are more likely to be embarrassed about masturbation than men and less likely to want to talk about it in public. Put on some Frank Ocean, light a candle, throw on some lingerie just because.